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Experiencing God's Love

Last Updated September 2010

Your Motives Reveal Your Love Experience
Your thoughts flow into motives. Your motives become decisions that drive your behavior. The following statements are indicators that you are living life out of a love-deficit:

  • When I feel rejected, I need to find a way to get people to love me at all costs.
  • I’m angry much of the time because I don’t feel loved just for the person I am and those around me are subject to my anger.
  • If someone shows signs of rejecting me, I protect myself by withdrawing from these and other relationships and hide in my safe little shell.
  • Because I don’t really believe God loves me and will care for my needs, I have to take care of myself at all costs, no matter who may suffer as a result.
  • I need to prove my worth as a person because love is missing inside me. This means I may turn to work, control, power, manipulation or other things to find a way of feeling okay about myself.
  • I simply cannot stand the idea that someone is unhappy with me. I must do whatever it takes to feel that those around me like me and approve of me and my decisions.

Your Behavior Reveal Your Love Experience
Your behavior is the ultimate manifestation of whether you are living life on the basis of God’s unconditional love or something less stable. The following statements are indicators that you are living life out of a love-deficit:

  • You do things to try to win the approval and love of others (often things that are demeaning to your worth and dignity)
  • When someone says or does something to reject you, it sends you spiraling downward into shame and depression
  • You act badly toward others in an effort to see whether they will love you despite that behavior as a means of getting attention and trying to evoke a love-response from others
  • You turn toward lesser expressions of love such as promiscuous sex as a cheap substitute for not being truly loved
  • You turn to alcohol, drugs and other forms of addiction as a coping-mechanism to try to numb the pain of shame and rejection

Now, take some time to rate the love you are experiencing in the following areas. Give yourself a score for each statement on a scale of 0 to 10 (0 meaning you are not experiencing any of this kind of love and 10 meaning you are experiencing the deepest possible measure of it).

  • I absolutely believe God loves me unconditionally for the person I am right now.
  • God’s love for me is the basis for my identity and worth – so much so that when others reject me, it doesn’t affect me because my identity is firmly established in the unconditional love of God.
  • God’s unconditional love for me allows me to rest in peace at all times because I know His love will take care of me no matter how big the challenges I face in my daily circumstances.
  • The foundation for my thoughts, values, motives and behavior is my awareness that God loves me.
  • Because I regularly experience a healthy dose of God’s love, I am able to love others and overlook their faults and failures.

Most of us find ourselves falling far short of experiencing the full measure of God’s love. There is no shame in this fact or its realization. Rather, it is an indicator that there is so much more love and life available to us than we are currently experiencing. If you find yourself on the low-end of the scale, take hope that your future can be filled with much more love than was your past. Yet, to experience more of God’s love, you have to change what you believe and how you think. That transformation will not come without some focused effort and work on your part. But, that investment will pay off for the rest of your life. Let’s get started on it right now.

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John Tisdale spent a decade in college and graduate school involved in two primary fields of study - theology and technology. The two fields seemed like an unusual pairing at the time. But, John has combined these fields in some unique ways over the past 25+ years.

John has been an avid writer on both subjects publishing his work in technology and faith-based magazines and professional journals for over two decades. His technical skills grew to include computer hardware and software, database development, Internet and Web, video production, television broadcasting, satellite communications, and audio production. John has worked extensively in Silicon Valley as a technology, communication and marketing consultant for over 15 years. He spent 7 years building a global satellite and internet-based television network for the computer industry that has been used by Microsoft, IBM, HP and numerous other technology leaders. He has produced many live and taped television shows, training programs, distance learning solutions, audio and worship CDs, training DVDs, ebooks and Web sites. John also has worked extensively in online marketing, SEO/SMO and interactive engagement architecture.

John has consulted for many of the largest faith-based organizations such as Billy Graham Evangelist Association, Campus Crusade for Christ, John McDowell Ministries and many others. He specializes in helping organizations understand the business opportunities for leverage advanced communication systems to engage and impact lives around the world. His focus over the past decade has been in online engagement architecture, user experience design, information architecture and SEO/SEM/SMO.

In 1994, John was working for a technology company producing television shows in Silicon Valley. He was given the task of producing a series of pay-per-view television programs on the Internet and the emerging World Wide Web. He begin researching the Internet. At the time, the tools for using the Internet included Joghead, Archie, Veronica, Finger, WhoIs and email. John began using them extensively and exploring opportunities with these or other emerging tools. The Web was just emerging and gaining interest in the Valley. John brought together many of the industry leaders from Silicon Valley who were leading the march with the Internet and Web to appear on the series of live interactive television broadcasts.

Following the television series, John began using the Internet and Web for personal evangelism and ministry. He found incredible success. He found himself praying with people interactively using early chat tools in numerous countries. He began training others how to use these tools for personal ministry. He got his friend Steve Hewitt, the editor of Christian Computing Magazine, connected to the Internet and trained how to minister to people with them. John appeared on Steve' syndicated call-in radio program Christian Computing Live on several occasions to discuss how to use the Internet to impact lives. John wrote a series of articles on the topic Christian Computing Magazine. He was invited by the Billy Graham Evangelical Association to train ministry leaders in the concepts at one of the first Internet Evangelism conferences.

John developed his first evangelistic web site in 1994 at www.WhyChrist.com (not in service any longer). He provided training, content and other free resources on this site. In 1995, John began developing a bigger vision for using the Internet to build a global network to connect ministries to help them reach and positively impact more lives. He called this vision the Online Christian Evangelical Alliance Network or OCEAN. He wrote a 300-page strategic white paper on the concept to using the Internet to provide a collaborative ministry network throughout 1995. In July 1995, a local Christian newspaper published an article on John’s internet evangelism work. John took all the resources and content he had developed for WhyChrist.com and transferred them over to ocean.org.

The next several years John developed a grass-roots effort to educate ministry leaders on the emerging opportunities afforded by the Internet. In 1998, John connected with a group of similar minded people in Silicon Valley who were working toward a very similar vision. John ended up combining his efforts with theirs under the umbrella of The Christian Internet Initiative. They worked together for a couple of years with many of the leading ministries. They ended up providing technology consulting services to many of the largest ministries in the U.S.

As this effort ran its course, another group was emerging to take the vision to the next level. A group from Christian Broadcast Network (CBN) in Virginia combined with venture capitalists in Silicon Valley to start Christianity.com. John eventually went to work for them and brought a team of software developers he had been training in the Midwest into the mix. The dotcom crash happened during this effort and seriously undermined the initiative. After the company consumed 3 rounds of venture capital it closed its door in 2000.

John then took his group of software developers and formed Tandem Partners. They provided custom Web application development services to many ministries such as Campus Crusade for Christ International and many others. John continued this work for the next decade. Most of the past decade, John has worked as a consultant helping organizations leverage the capabilties of the Internet. He has worked on producing and developing a wide assortment of resources to help seekers, skeptics and believers alike grow spiritually and find deeper fulfillment in their personal relationship with God.

John’s passion is to experience the deepest measures of life possible through his personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He wants to see others experience emotional and spiritual healing, freedom and abundant life. John resides in the Houston area with his wife Anita (a singer, songwriter and worship leader). They are also involved in international mission work, particularly in the Baltic region (helping bring hope as well as spiritual and emotional healing to war-torn regions such as Bosnia). You will find John's personal website at www.JohnTisdale.com.

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